Bismillahirrahmanirrahim..
I was called
to write after reading my friend’s post on her blog.
Her writing
makes me to think and ponder back about myself and the life that I’ve been
living so far.
The life I’ve
spent living in my own bubble. I care too much about privacy. Two years living
away from my family and living with a friend in an apartment make it worse. I
care about myself more than before. Never thought it is wrong. Or I should say
that I cannot see anything wrong with it. I just exercise my right to have
privacy. ‘MY RIGHT’. I think that phrase really get me in being who I am now.
My friend
mentioned in her post that this attitude is the reason for the uncaring
behavior to the less fortunate and the continuous misfortune and crazy events
that are happening right now. People with this attitude delude themselves by
thinking that they are good as long as they don’t cause trouble to others. They
condemn all the bad things that happen in this world yet they do nothing to
make any change to it. Why? Because they are so comfortable in their own bubble
and care no more about others. It sounds just like me.
Sometimes because
we want others to give us privacy we don’t give a second to ask about their wellbeing.
And then, we think we’re doing something right when actually we are doing them
just harm. The harm of being alone and caring for only oneself.
Give reminder
to others so others will remind you too. I remember saying something similar to
a friend of mine and the reminder comes to find me too. Alhamdulillah.
