Siapa Sombong??

Bismillahirrahmanirrahim..

Assalamualaikum..

Something happened to my friend..

And because of that I have a question that keep buzzing in my mind..

'Eh, adakah dikatakan sombong apabila seorang perempuan tersebut tidak menegur(secara berlebih-lebihan) dengan kaum yang bertentangan?'

Hish.. kalau ada la mana2 guy yang baca entry ni please take note to what i'm going to say:

first, a girl tak bercakap banyak dengan a guy sebab dia rasa unnecessary.

second, doesn't mean she is SOMBONG if she doesn't talk much to you or maybe nothing at all. if she smile or show some kind of acknowledgement gesture kira dia tak sombong la... 

third, yang hang duk kata dia sombong tu atas dasar apa?? How actually you perceive SOMBONG? Adakah kerana hang suka kat dia hang kata dia sombong apabila tak cakap ngan hang? uh.. puh-lease!!

fourth, if that girl is a nice girl, dia taknak la bagi harapan palsu kat mana2 guy. you know what, it is so obvious that you(this particular guy) like her. I have no problem with it. Totally OK! but the thing yang buat jadi tak OK bila you buat perangai yg melebih2.. panjang sgt lau nak explain.. the point I want to make is a nice girl won't intended to motivate your feeling towards her when she has none.

And if she does, she's going to do the same thing. 

SHE WANTS TO TAKE CARE OF HERSELF!! SO IF YOU DO LOVE HER HELP HER TO DO IT.. I SEE THE WAY YOU ACT RIGHT NOW DOESN'T SHOW THAT YOU RESPECT HER STAND POINT. PLEASE BEAR IT IN YOUR MIND (and me) LOVE ALSO MEANS RESPECT.

Jadi tolonglah faham wahai adam2 sekalian.. sometimes it's not that she doesn't love/like you but she just feel that it is not a right thing to do. My message may not be clear, but I hope you all understand what I'm saying. But if you don't, too unfortunate of me for not having skill at delivering message..

I am not good either. Terkadang ada jugak batas-batasan yg dilanggar tanpa sengaja atau tak sengaja when mixing around with opposite sex. Ini adalah peringatan buat hamba yang hina ini. Hope that someone is going to remind me in when I do any mistakes in the future. InsyaAllah.. Aamiin..

Peace..

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